Friday, November 15, 2013

Celebrate the Small Things: Just Two Goals

"Even the woodpecker owes his success to the fact that he uses his head and keeps pecking away until he finishes the job he starts" (Coleman Cox). Ha-ha. I read this today and had to laugh. It helps that the woodpecker has a stout beak for doing the job. However, Cox makes a good point. When do we apply our smarts (or that of others) when trying to achieve a goal?

All of us are self taught to some degree and some of us are more brilliant than others. I am hardly the latter! For the vast majority of us, there is a high learning curve. There are plenty of 'self-help' or 'how-to' books available for learning how to achieve more, be more, and do more. Goodness. An entire profession has been devoted by some on instructing in the various fields: writing, art, psychology, health, and religion, to name a few. I have read my share.

A huge motivator for me in the past in pursuing such instruction has always been a basic unhappiness or an unmet need...... I read avidly about the various faiths (mostly Christian), until God finally shook some sense into me and I saw how 'unworthy' and then (surprise) 'worthy' I was as a child of God. I pushed to finish a college degree rather late in life, alongside my adult daughter and son. After graduation, I took on two 'work for hire' projects for two publishers (I also had an editing job) and worked so hard the back of my neck actually swelled. I can be stubborn and persistent sometimes. 

Funny thing though is now that I am older, I am no longer as driven, which is a real handicap when you are trying to finish a novel. Is it laziness? A bad habit? Have I decided the original goal is not worth the effort? Perhaps the goal has evolved into something new, I have reasoned. For instance, I love blogging about family and things unrelated to the writing profession. I love letting a friend share her experience as a nurse on the Africa Mercy. I love that I now exercise regularly. (Health issues forced me to take exercise seriously and now I am ten pounds lighter). But truth be told, and here's the bottom line....I still want to finish the book!! So, in the left hand column of this blog I still record my (pitifully small) writing output and exercise (so proud of that).

Last but not least, my plate is rather full right now, but in a good, happy way. Vince and I have been exploring retirement options and the possibility of a move, and you can just imagine the reading material available on the topic. Next year is the year! We keep asking, where do we really want to live? Near our out-of-state children? Near our aging family? For that matter, staying here is a viable option, too. These are serious considerations that will determine so much of what happens to us in the future. We have spent hours discussing our options, a debate that will no doubt continue into 2014.

Like the woodpecker, I (we) will keep pecking away at the stated goals: finish the novel and decide where to live in retirement. When I look at it that way, it is really just two goals to accomplish. So today, I am celebrating the lesson of the woodpecker, who knows (in a small way) how to get the job done, one peck at a time!

How do you handle goals? Has your experience been similar?





Monday, November 11, 2013

Africa Mercy - Surgeries, Excursion, & Slaves: One Nurse's Journey

Sorry to be so behind on my blogging schedule. Not sure I have a schedule, but I have aimed for more than one blog post a week! Here is another email from my friend in the Congo. She is learning so much! ......Sharon




(This is a running post about a friend's journey as a nurse on the Africa Mercy)



2 nov 13, Surgeries, Excursion, & Slaves

Greetings:

First, an update on surgeries:  In general, our surgeons come for 2 to 3 weeks, tucking their time with us into their vacation time from their regular practices.  Dr. Guy was with us for two weeks, and he performed over a hundred cataract surgeries while he was here.  The results have been very, very good.  Many patients could see well from the moment the eye patch came on the day after surgery; others had some edema which cleared by their two week checkup, and their vision improved correspondingly.  That's actually the more normal scenario for cataract surgery.  I've attached a picture of the man I described last email, rejoicing over his restored sight.

 Halleluah! Man praising. Marilyn on right in blue.




 We now have a gap in the surgery schedule--no surgeon for three weeks. Normally, I'd say that this is very sad--all those potential surgeries not being done--but perhaps it's a blessing after all.  We are having trouble lining up enough patients to fill the surgery schedule as it is.

 We're not sure why--I would suppose there are several factors.  This is our first time in Congo, so we don't have the reputation here that we have in West Africa. I imagine that there are many who have adopted a wait-and-see attitude.Also, Pointe Noire is a much smaller city than other places we have been, and the extended follow up required for cataract surgery makes it hard for out-of-town patients to come.  Then, too, Congo seems to have more health care available for those who can afford it than does West Africa.  There are surgeons here who do cataract surgery.  That seems to be a mixed blessing.  We see quite a few people who have had cataract surgery, but they can't see.  Most surgeons here--maybe all--don't put a new lens in place, they just remove the cataract lens.  That gives people more light and color, but no focused image.  Of course, we probably aren't seeing patients whose previous cataract surgery has gone well because they don't need us--and who knows how many of those there are?  Whatever the reason(s), we are not getting the expected numbers of people at our screenings, and therefore we are not getting the number of patients scheduled for surgery as we expected, and need, if we are to keep our surgeons busy when they come.


The Gorge - near Pointe Noire, Africa




On another note, let me tell you about our excursion yesterday.  Pam and I took our day crew plus several others out for a day of exploration and fun.  We went to The Gorge, a beautiful area about 15 miles outside of Pointe Noire.  Our three day crew have lived their lives in Pointe Noire, but none of them had ever been to the The Gorge before.  Fifteen miles sounds close--but it's a long walk if you don't have a car.

Anyway, the Gorge consists of red cliffs in the midst of jungle leading down to the ocean.We hiked for a couple of hours along a trail leading from the top of the Gorge all the way to the ocean.  (They didn't think I could do it!  And they did have to help me in spots...)  At the end of the trail is a beautiful sandy beach, and it is even free of debris and garbage.  There is some very lovely scenery here in Congo.


On the way to the Gorge, we stopped to visit a very beautiful, very sad place.  Apparently, Pointe Noire was a major port for slave traders.  We visited the bay where two million people were shackled, counted, labeled, and shipped to serve as slaves in Europe and America during the heyday.  You read about it, you see movies about it, but being at the actual site brings great sadness as you ponder the reality of man's inhumanity to man--and not just historically.  It's not happening at this location at this time, but elsewhere, people still suffer.  Being there also sparked a bit of introspection--am I free from the all-too-human tendency to use other people for my own ends? Perhaps I am not a slave trader because I was born in a different place and and different time, not because I am essentially superior. I grieved for the slaves, but also for the slave traders, caught up in an evil they didn't even see.

Well, enough philosophical musing.  Next week, since we don't have surgeries, I will be involved in some special screening days.  We have given tickets to all the Congolese day crew so that they can bring people they know who have cataracts to see if we can do surgery for them.  I hope that many people do come, because I know that there are many people here too poor to afford cataract surgery from the local surgeons, no matter how excellent their surgical technique is, or isn't.

We can do a lot of good for many people, if only we can find them and get them scheduled.  Maybe our day crew will find them for us.

Blessings,
Marilyn



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Monday, November 4, 2013

Weekly Recap: A Maui Reflection

View from our Papakea condo-west Maui
We are back from Maui, Hawaii (as well as from an extended smaller trip to see family in western Washington). Upon reflection, I feel as if I have been adrift at sea for the past two weeks and slowly swimming back against the surf.

Our patio on left; quiet romantic breakfasts
every morning
After a week back home of regrouping and letting life take hold again, my feet are finally planted on the shore. This was our first time to Hawaii. For years I have heard others describe their
adventures and experiences in Hawaii, with eyes glistening and hearts aglow. A family of four I know has made this trek yearly for as long as I can remember. They claim to not worry about the expense and simply spend the rest of the year paying off their credit card debt. Another friend and his wife travel to Maui yearly to the same condo, where they hole up with visiting family and loads of books. More recently, two dear friends island hopped and had a marvelous time. Frankly, we just never could afford it before, and we were hardly the big spenders this time around either.

Vince at seawall
Maui was lovely of course, but I must confess there is no comparison to our experience living in Southeast Asia in the 1990s, where we basked in the rich diverse cultures of Malaysia, Thailand
and Indonesia. Beaches and sunsets were breathtaking and we had the snorkeling experience of a lifetime on Tioman Island, complete with komodo dragons fighting on the beach. But what Hawaii has that no other Pacific tropical region has is the safety of U.S. borders. As one wanting to visit every country in the world, I find this comforting in our increasingly unsafe world. No worries, no passports to update and stress over, no food issues, no language barriers, no money quandaries.......and no civil wars! 


We rented a condo on Maui’s west coast for five days, where we had an unobstructed view of the ocean and the island of Molokai. I had forgotten how powerful the surf can be.....AND NOISY. Vince woke up in the middle of the night to the surf shaking our room and the seawall just twenty feet away, and began surfing the net on his phone for a tsunami warning. It turns out there had just been a major earthquake in the Philippines, so he was a bit stirred up. Ha-ha. False alarm....no worries in the end. All in all, it was a gorgeous setting for early morning breakfasts on the patio, with the sun barely surfacing and few people about. Given the 3-hour time difference, we woke early on most days.

The happy couple
Bryce, Brenda, Jennifer and Richard.
The wedding groomsmen and
bridesmaids (bride's daughters)
The rest of our time was tourist-packed, exploring the sights, the old town of Lahaina in particular, and
anticipating the wedding on the second day, our main reason for coming. Vince’s brother and his girlfriend were married on a beach north of us. The wedding went well without a hitch and they seem to be off to a happy start. We had to laugh though when we first arrived. Apparently the beach is a popular wedding location. The parking lot was full when we  arrived and there were brides and grooms and bridal parties walking about, all waiting their turn. But from the pictures you would never guess anyone else was around!
Vince at Haleakala crater

More than the beaches, for us the highlight was visiting Maui’s dormant volcano, Haleakala. Often socked in with fog and clouds at 10,023 feet, we decided to google the mountain's weather beforehand and saw that only one day had possibilities. We lucked out. The top was clear and sunny that day. The views overlooking the vast crater and cinder cones were absolutely surreal. We are so glad we went.

"I'm sitting on top of the world"
Hawaii's state bird, the Nene. Oh, I so much wanted
to see one, but never did. I have this bird in my book!

We had passed on the snorkeling, submarine rides, zip lines, and sailboat rides, concentrating more on local history and scenery. (I think we are more travelers than tourists).

"Drums of the Pacific Luau"
However, we did go to a traditional luau (a must :) and Maui’s Ocean Center, a large walk-through aquarium in Maalaea. Also in Maalaea was the only quilt store in all of Maui, where I found a locally made quilt with a turtle design. We gave this to Doug and Karen as a wedding gift. Wish I had taken a photo. They loved it! 

Maui Ocean Center

Surfer on northern coast, along the road to Hana. Surf looked about 4 feet high. One surfer lost his board and had to be rescued by another surfer. I'm glad they watch out for each other! 
Baldwin house. Missionary home in 'old' Lahaina. Lots of history in Lahaina. (We visited this town twice). Home had two feet thick walls, as was customary in England. Turns out it was perfect insulation in the tropical heat.
A good trip, although it is always nice to be home again. If only it did not take so long to reacclimate. I have so much to do. I woke up to snow on the rooftops this morning and an overwhelming drive to finish my last two chapters...or else. Grrr....BIG GRRR....time to get tough (on me)! I have a ton of books to read and review, too. But aren’t Mondays great? They inspire fresh ideas and provide untold energy. Wow....I have the whole week ahead of me. I am eager to jump in and see what I can do. How about you?      

Copyright 2013 © Sharon Himsl




Sharon M. Himsl

Writer/Author. Blogging since 2011. 
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Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Africa Mercy - Reaching the Summit: One Nurse's Journey

Hi......Cataract surgery is something we take for granted here in the United States. All of us can probably think of at least one person who has benefited from this life-changing surgery, and there are few if any complications. Imagine the joy of being able to see again, after waiting for months (maybe longer) for the Africa Mercy to arrive. Marilyn shares the excitement of one such day in the following post. How I wish I could have been there!     Sharon
 (This is a running post about my friend's journey as a nurse on the Africa Mercy, a hospital ship that travels up the coast of Africa)

15 Oct 2013
Today was a mountaintop day.

We finally started cataract surgery yesterday, after two months of training and preparation.  We've done many screenings to select patients, and we've seen quite a few people in the clinic for a more thorough eye exam.  Those patients who qualified for surgery have been waiting for their big day...and for some of them, that day was yesterday.

Actually, their big day was today.  After surgery, the patients have an eye patch for 24 hours.  So yesterday's surgery patients came today to have their patches removed.  It was the moment of truth--and what a moment it was!

The patients arrived around noon and were seated on benches facing each other. It had been raining, but now the sun was out, and it was hot even in the shade of the canopy. But the atmosphere was charged, expectant, suspenseful.  One of the day crew started taking off the eye patch from the first man in line. The crowd held their collective breath.  As the patch came off, the man jumped up and started shouting "Hallelujah."  Someone held up some fingers for him to count...and he could.  With every finger count he got correct, the crowd went wild.

Soon they were all singing and clapping and even dancing.  One by one the patches came off, and the people rejoiced.  We had quite a crowd--patients, caregivers, workers, kids--so it got to be a very spirited party right there on the dock. Several of our day crew were openly weeping, overcome with emotion to see the first fruits of all their labors.

 Our very first patient to have cataract surgery yesterday was a little grandma with a lot of spunk.  Once she could see again, there was no holding her back.  She was practically running to get onto the ship for the doctor's post-surgical exam.  Suddenly, she stopped dead in her tracks and her eyes got big.  "The boat is so large!  I had no idea it was so large.  I couldn't see it yesterday when I was here."

We brought all twelve of yesterday's patients into the ship for their follow-up exam.  They were all lined up in their chairs...until the singing and dancing broke out again.  We did eventually get them all examined, and they went on their way rejoicing.  I tell you, it was an afternoon to remember!

These people received their healing as a gift from God, and rightly so. God planted the vision of Mercy Ships, and he has brought the vision to fruition.  This is such a complex project, with so many obstacles to overcome, it just wouldn't be possible if He didn't facilitate it.  And to think that it is done by a bunch of volunteers, just ordinary people that God has called to come play with him.  I count it such a privilege that there is a place for me here, a ringside seat to watch him work, an invitation to join him in the fun.

Blessings to you all,
Marilyn


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Friday, October 4, 2013

Celebrate the Small Things: Pony Rides and Simpler Times

A picture of me at four years old. Traveling salesmen were big in the 50s and 60s. They went door to door selling their ware and
made a perfectly decent income for all I know. In this case, a photographer had knocked on our door and offered a photo on his beautiful pony. It was the beginning of a love for horses that continues to this day. 

I lived in a big city at the time, so owning a horse was never an option, but Point Defiance Park (Tacoma, WA) had stables where one could rent a horse for a few hours for an affordable price. My babysitting money was usually enough, and I was a regular customer for a while, from about age 11 to 14. You could practice one-foot jumps in the corral or ride on a trail, and the horses were as gentle as lambs. Insurance and lawyers got wind of this at some point (no doubt there were injuries) and the stables were eventually closed for 'insurance reasons'.  To my knowledge, stables like this no longer exist. 

So, today I am celebrating a simpler time when pony rides were more than a spin around the ring at the local fair, which I often see at county fairs and carnivals today. How about you? Ever have a door to door salesman come to your door with a pony and offer to take your picture? Were you as crazy about horses (and ponies) as I was?

On a smaller level (because I should be done by now!), I finished a chapter last week. My frustration level with the novel I am trying to finish could comprise an entire post, but I won't bore with the details. Just happy to have made some progress.

Hope you have had a good week. Enjoy your weekend! 


Copyright 2013 © Sharon Himsl

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Africa Mercy - Moving Along Gently: One Nurse's Journey

Hi. Another interesting post from Marilyn in the Congo, my longtime friend serving as a nurse on the Africa Mercy. Her posts are a treasure trove for those considering a similar journey, and a window in for those who never will. I love her story of the little boy at the end, how one small life can make such a difference. It gives hope for those in the future....Sharon

(This is a running post about a nurse's journey on the Africa Mercy, a hospital ship that travels up and down the coast of Africa)


9/26/13
Moving along gently

 Pam, one of my teammates, was gone for two weeks to attend her daughter's wedding. It didn't seem to me that she'd missed much...but she thought so, and it's the same two weeks since I last wrote.  So, what did she miss?

Perhaps the main change has been the establishment of a routine, albeit a continually changing and interrupted one. Tuesdays and Wednesdays, we go to one of several sites around town to screen for potential patients. Mondays and Thursdays we are at the eye clinic giving a more complete eye exam to people who passed the first cut at screening. Fridays have been a potpourri, but will become clinic days starting this week.  Our first eye surgeon arrives in two weeks. Until then, we do preparation and training, shifting people around so that as many people as possible can learn to do the different jobs.

What all happens in the clinic exam?  First, we collect personal information, including phone numbers and languages spoken.  It still amazes me how widespread cell phones are, even among people living in shacks with deficient diets. It is a way of life here, an essential tool that people really depend on.  Well, we depend on them, too, in case our surgery schedule changes for any reason.

But getting an accurate phone number seems to be a challenge.      Either they don't know it, or it gets transcribed wrong, or our     western way of reading the numbers the translators write is      sketchy, or some combination of factors.

 To begin the eye exam itself, we use a Snellen chart to test visual    acuity.  If the person sees too well, we don't do cataract surgery,    saving our limited surgery spots for people who are too blind to    function without a caregiver.  For those with somewhat better vision, we see if perhaps glasses would help, and we use a tonopen to check for glaucoma. Glaucoma is a major cause of blindness here, but if we catch it soon enough and send them for proper treatment, their vision can be saved. 

Is their vision poor enough to qualify for surgery? The next step      is to dilate their eyes.  Then we use an auto-refractor to measure      the curvature of the cornea, one of the measurements they need to choose the proper lens to implant in surgery.  From there, they   move to the slit lamp, where an ophthalmic provider or technician examines their eyes for a variety of diseases and conditions that would prevent a successful cataract surgery, including corneal scarring and retinal damage.  We also test these patients for glaucoma, since cataracts and glaucoma are not mutually exclusive.

Is the patient still a good surgical candidate? Next comes the A-scan, an ultrasound device that measures the depth of the eyeball, another number needed for choosing the proper lens. Then we take a short medical history and take their blood pressure. Africans tend to run high blood pressures, but if it is above 200/120, the retina can bleed during surgery--not good.  So, we send them to see a doctor and get their blood pressure under better control, and then we bring them back in a month for another try at qualifying for surgery.

 Finally, about half the people who come for the eye exam are found to be qualified for surgery.  We then enter their information into the computer, schedule the surgery, and fill out the necessary paperwork.  Last stop--teaching.  We need to explain the surgery and the risks and get a consent signed.  We need to tell them when  and where to go, what to bring, and how to prepare for the day of surgery.

It takes an hour or more to get each patient through the whole       process, and we're seeing around 60 patients a day on clinic days. It becomes quite the assembly line, but each of the tasks require some skill and some practice to do them well.  Of course, we also require translation for every step of the way-- communication is always the biggest challenge.  Many of the machines and tasks can be done by our Congolese day crew once they have been trained, and indeed, we couldn't function without them filling many of the roles on the team.  But, perhaps now you can understand why it takes so long to get each one properly trained in a variety of tasks and to get the whole operation running smoothly.

 Today brought an unexpected treasure.  It is our practice as a team to circle up to pray before we start our work day.  This morning, however, the patients and caregivers who were lined up waiting for their appointments wanted to join our prayer circle!  Some of them prayed in Kituba (I think it was Kituba, anyway), some in French, and some of us in English.  Congo is 90% professing Christian, and they are passionate about it.  When they pray, it is loud, long, and fervent.  When they have a church service, it lasts two or three hours and includes much loud, passionate singing and loud, passionate preaching.  So, our morning prayer time was energetic today!

It seems that Wednesday is market day in Pointe Noir.  We were      trying to reach a screening site fairly far across town yesterday,      and the traffic was so dense it took an hour to get there.      Thankfully, I did not have to drive!  Do you ever find yourself      squeezing your  elbows to your sides when your vehicle is trying to  navigate a narrow spot?  Or squinching your eyes?  Wednesday gave me plenty of opportunity to observe those reactions in myself!  But we got there, and we got home again in due time.

 Market day was interesting to observe from our slow-moving car.  Hundreds of people swarming everywhere (mostly not watching for cars, either).  Traders were sitting by their little patches of      wares laid on a cloth on the ground, hoping for customers. I would  have been bored out of my gourd to have to sit there all day in the   sun hoping for an occasional sale, but these folks seemed content.  They'd visit with the trader sitting next to them, or just sit      doing nothing visible, but their faces were peaceful and their      movements were placid.  Little children flitted all around--who      knows who they belonged to?  They have a freedom of movement that our kids have lost.  I would have been gripping mine tightly in the midst of such a crowd, I know, but these kids seemed to be able to play freely.

 Speaking of screening day and of little kids, let me end by mentioning a special little boy. He was probably about seven or eight, and he came alone to our screening yesterday because his eyes were bothering him. Who knows if he has parents, or why they were not with him? If he has parents, did they send him to fend for himself, or did they perhaps not even know that he came? We had a crowd of several hundred people yesterday, and this little guy just waited at the end of the line for the crowd to clear so that he could make himself known and present his request.  His eyes were itchy, probably allergies, so we gave him some soothing drops. 

But how many eight year old kids do you know who can navigate to a destination, negotiate a crowd of hundreds of competing adults, wait patiently for hours by himself, and then present his medical situation and request in a clear and concise manner? Mark my words, that young man is destined to be a leader someday, if he can navigate the treacherous waters of childhood without capsizing.  

Blessings to you all,
Marilyn 



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